Oh people # 1 is I would NEVER leave MY house. It is MY house not his so that is not ever an option, for him to leave yes. #2 is he did apologize. The cold shoulder not talking to him or calling him back when I didn't call him at lunchtime and he called me at work while I was at lunch and coming home not saying I'm home but stating I was leaving to take the dog for a walk and when I got back and was making the dogs dinner he came up and rubbed my back and aplogized for what he did. He said he gets jealous of my kids. He was upset...very upset to tears, I hate when he cries...He has gone into big depression I think, he won't even go to the store(walmart) anymore, he stays down the basement and watches TV and whatever else he does. I left him a note today to get outside and enjoy the sunshine we are having today and do something besides sitting in the "dungeon" all day long! He even isn't watching the dog water dish outside making sure they have water out there for when they hang outside, it was empty well not all the way, but he said he didn't go outside and I asked him who took out the garbage cans and he said well he didn't look at the water dish. I told him he needs to get on the ball and do something already like he used to do projects in the past. Hopefully he followed my note written in big black marker that I left for him on the table downstairs.