Thanks Cheryl. Great advice. We both need to redirect. I tend to ask him every day how he feels. Perhaps I should wait until he is ready to talk about it. Hugs back to you.

EllenB


caregiver for husband
diagnosed with oral cancer May 2011 after 6 mo
node lft side and several in jaw involved
Base of Tongue Stage IVA
7 weeks radiation
Cisplatin-3 chemos (beginning,middle,end) IntraV administration