Thanks Joanna, NY has been cold and I can't wait to just get this past me and do some yardwork myself. The second opinion doc was way more optimistic, plus he had an insane amount plaques on the wall, I like that in a doc. He's getting the slides double checked and we are going to schedule surgery tomorrow. Lymph nodes on the right side and the tongue in the back right are a piece of history. He did give me the choice of radiation instead of surgery but since i'm 34, I'm going for the knife....yipe!

I'll post how the ct scans go I should know by Thursday.