My sympathies to all those who sit and wait. I've also heard that a small stool (the kind you put your feet up on) helps one get into the proper position for easy success. I had some out of town company recently and the first morning, she asked me for some reading matter. I started to go through my favorites, i.e, John Grisham, Buddha, Eckhardt Tolle and she interrupted with "Anything!" and I realized she was on her way to the bathroom. The read and sit must work, though because one day as my daughter passed the bathroom where her youngest son (9 yrs) was sitting on the poo place, she asked him what he was doing checking out his shorts. He said he was reading the label on his underwear because he had forgotten his book. So, to all those who sit and wait, just remember, "stuff happens". . . . eventually.