Thanks Joanna for your encouraging words! I think if we try and dwell on this disease and all the negative aspects of it - we would all go nuts! So I try to be positive whenever I can be - but in truth, it's not always easy trying to put on a "happy face" to the people at work or even around family and such when they honestly don't know what you're feeling or going through as a caregiver. I know things are difficult enough for the cancer patient - so my outlet is through this forum mostly - although a good cry in the privacy of the bedroom is always helpful too. The chest heaviness he experienced yesterday doesn't seem to be as bothersome today (or at least he didn't mention it).....and he was able to have a tall glass of milk and some cereal for breakfast as well. Also, is it common to experience anemia or low blood count, because as soon as my husband gets up from bed - he starts getting real cold (almost shivering). Is this because of not enough iron in the diet or what? Thanks for your help - and if you need a lending ear - I will be here as well as all the fine people in this forum too! Bless You!!