Hi everyone,

I have many questions, my dad's surgery is next week, I'm happy he will have it but he is not sure he wants it, he is very affraid, he thinks he wont be able to talk. He wants to know if he can have radiation instead. We will be asking the doctor tomorrow but still... has anyone felt this way? Not wanting to go through surgery? At times I feel impatient because I wish they would have operated him yesterday, but I know it is tough