Thanks all for your support...Rod has spiraled into depression since last Thursday. I saw my psychologist on Wednesday, she said it is because it has been for the last 2 years we have been expecting the worst everytime we go for an appt. Now that it's good news, I don't think it has sunk in with him. Have had all this other crap going on with my health, family in NZ, money & my ex employer, so I'm just in need of a brick wall myself. Even my anti depressants don't seem to be doing anything. After court [with work] - and I have found a solicitor - no win no cost, to represent me when it happens mid year, we are going to go to Tassie for a week...that thought is the only thing keeping me sane at the moment. Rod however appears extremely unwell, has slept all day on the couch, woke for 10 mmins, then went to bed.....bit worried, although it might just be a virus or something.....sometomes I could scream at life.....