Gianna - So glad you found this site. There is a wealth of information here and support by compassionate, helpful others who have been where you are. It's good that your husband has a biopsy scheduled so that you can know for sure what is happening. Make a list of all your questions so that you can get them answered when you see the doctor. You could start from the main page of OCF with information on diagnosis at: http://oralcancerfoundation.org/diagnosis/index.htm - or any other links that can help you get your questions together. And until Thursday, try to keep busy so you don't start thinking too much about the whys and what-ifs but more about the very possible good outcomes that come with surviving oral cancer. We'll be thinking about you. Do let us know what is happening.