We learned on Friday that my mom's cancer has returned for a second time (surgery in August 2009, radiation January 2010) and now they are saying it is non curable because it has metastisized to both lung and the sac lining her heart, as well as another tumor on the tongue.

We don't know what to do. No treatment is 6 months. weekly chemo gives us a 40% chance for 1-2 years. Should we be going somewhere else for a second opinion. Not so much on the diagnosis, but on the treatments. If so, where? Or should we just make the most of every day/month we have left?

This isn't going to be a very merry Christmas. She turns 70 next week.