Hi Mike
Sounds like some of the same stuff I have. I have been told by my ENT that they may want to treat the spasms/cramps w/ Botox. Interesting treatment IMHO, but if/when it gets bad enough I suppose I'll give it a run.
I too get a bit of bleeding every once in awhile from my gums and tongue after a good cleaning. Doc says no big deal unless it is a large amount (define large

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Keep on keepin !!
Kevin