I was just sitting here reading through the messages and got to wondering about the thousands who must be drawing strength from this web site without ever knowing what to say or just not being the type of person who talks about it. For myself, I would like to say welcome. I have been deeply moved by the messages posted. Compared to some of you I just had a minor headache but it was hard for me and I will be 'lurking' if I'm not talking. I need the comradeship a lot of days. So to the silent folks, it is good to have you. Did I say that right? Milton