Thanks Anne-Marie. The only time I think he didn't smoke was when he was in a coma for 2 weeks with his bout of Non Hodgkins in 08.He's just simply stupid. He won't do anything to stop either. I have tried. I wish I could just give him a shot and stop him or secretly drop some Chantix or Wellbutrin in a drink! Something, but you just can't make somebody stop if they don't want to period. Everybody on here can tell me to make him stop but that is just impossible, you can't make a grown man stop anything he don't want to stop doing. It is his call, it's his life he can make either the right or wrong choices. Nobody is gonna stop him except himself. So if he has another bout he told me that "I" would be happy cuz I said "I told you so" and I said no I wouldn't be happy cuz said "I told you so" I'd be sad because you didn't listen.