Dave,
Just read your post and want you to know I will say a prayer for you and hope everything turns out okay. By reading the other posts on this forum, you know you are not alone. Cancer sucks, especially oral cancer, where it leaves it's ugly mark on us to the point of not even being able to eat and some not even being able to talk. Please keep in touch with us. I pray that your surgery and treatment will be a success.
julieann