Hi Charles,

so good that you can eat so many things!! I look forward to that day (i'm four weeks out of treatment). Congratulations!!!

I think we all experience the same thing whether we are single or with partner (although there is more support with a partner). I'm married and sometimes worry whether my relationship will ever go back to the way it was before. All the mucus, tiredness, depression etc is not exactly the best for a romantic relationship. I'm struggling to come out of the mess so maybe my husband can maybe see a hint of the woman he married.

I'm sure time will slowly make it easier for us. As one wise OCF member said to me "Cancer does not mean the end of life,love and laughter". I have no doubt that you will find love again Charles, its just a matter of time. Like Christine says "Good things come to those who wait".

Keep us posted with your updates.

Best wishes
Minh


35 Yrs old
03/10 SCC T1-T2
Partial Glossectemy end March - margins not clear enough.
While waiting for resection - cancer returned,2 new cancerous lumps
Re-section End May & flap from cheek attatched. Margins clear.
Mid June - 4 teeth out
Mid July -32 Rads and 3 Cisplatin
6th Sept 10 Finished Treatment!!