My best friend's husband was diagnosed with Oral Cancer about 2 months ago. He just had jaw replacement surgery 2 weeks ago - got home from the hospital last Friday. I've been so torn between wanting to call and check with them every few days vs. just waiting for them to call me. I am really concerned that they get the necessary emotional support that they both need as he goes through the healing process - there is just so much to deal with. I've sent cards, flowers, brought food, and told them both that nothing is too small or large to ask. Is there anything else that I can do / that I am overlooking? I thought it would be beneficial to reach out to those who have lived through it all.
Any insight you could offer would be most appreciated.