Hey Maxie,
So glad you found this site. Don't be afraid to ask away. There are so many helpful people here. Unfortunatly pathology does take that long. It can be nerve racking but words I always follow are
"out of site, out of mind". Spend this week with friends and family during a nice dinner out. Enjoy that movie you have wanted to watch. It will help a lot. You are blessed with a wonderful dentist who decided right away to do a biopsy which is huge. Please keep us posted on the results. Many prayers coming your way.