My best friend - we have been friends for almost 30 years is 40 years old and just had a relapse after 8 months. She had part of tongue (origination) and lymph nodes on one side removed. Eight months later, her other lymph swelled with pain and she just had it removed as well as tissue, muscle, nerves that were attacked. Very aggressive as the other lymph was clear less than a year ago.

She is in recovery for a month then moving to 6 weeks of radiation.

How can I do the right thing for her - she is across the country from me. How can I be sensitive and support her the right way?