Look for posts by SusanW, who is also in NYC and whose husband is currently being treated at Sloan. (To find them, click on Advanced under the Search box in the upper right corner of each forum page; then type SusanW into the Display Name Search box.)
If you have any specific questions for her, you can view her profile (which includes an e-mail address) or send her a private message by right-clicking on her name in any of her posts, or click on User List at the top of each forum page and find her profile.