Great news.  Got an invite from Steve's hospital the other day.  They are trying to form a support group for patients and their families who have head and neck cancer.  Yahoo.  I've searched high and low to find a support group specific to what we deal with and over a distance of approx 200km haven't found one yet.  Or even found one listed within Australia.  This is a service so badly needed.  I know there were about 61 patients (read this in a report) with head and neck cancers attending our hospital at the same time Steve was having treatment but not once did we meet them.  As far as I know also, they are not on this site.  I often have wondered how other people cope.  
So there's a meeting set to take place on the 31st of March.  You better believe it, I will be there 

About time Australia came out of the dark ages in regards to this disease.