Your wife is a saint!!! I've read some of your stories on here! LOL I've tried that tact and have been unsuccessful. If I argue with him, he just gets worse, and if I don't say anything then he just does what he wants which is nothing. Frankly there are days I could just get in the car and drive (south since I'm sick of the snow - 12" a couple days ago and now anywhere from 4-9 this week). I'm considering life as a beach bum because I've just about had it. Even used the ole line "if I said that to you, how would you feel??" But that's different. Personally, I think his thyroid is totally screwed up - mood changes, depression, cold, etc. then fine for awhile and then back to the Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde routine. His last TSH was in September and was .46 and he's due now for a TSH, T3 and T4. We'll see.