Jordan - like anything else in life, it is what you make it. Go to a get together with a feeling of celebration, and that's what you will experience. You've just read three OCF old timers say they would be there, I think that speaks to people's desire to see the positive in things. No one wants to relive the negatives. These posts were speaking to why there was some reservation in some of us about getting together, not that it couldn't be a good experience, or that it shouldn't be done. And I see no reason not to remember good friends lost. What I remember about Danny and Glenn for instance was their amazining inner strength, and that memory makes some of that strength possible for me. I don't want to forget them.