I am new here, but am with Mark on his idea for a fundraiser. Anyone in your family, or good friends, can put together a fundraiser (like a "Walk for Cancer" or a beef and beer. The walk is the easiest because you just find people who are willing to sponsor a walker (ie, will contribute $10 towards that walker) and all of the money collected is given to your family. You can easily raise thousands of dollars if you know enough people and your friends and family are willing to pass the word around. The benefits like a beef and beer are good, but require a little more planning on your part because you need food, a dj, a place to hold it, etc. And as for money, he should be able to collect some sort of state disability, you would just need your doctor to fill out a portion of the paper saying your husband will not be able to work for a certain period, (maybe 6 months or whatever it may be). You will pull through, everyone does, and you will be a stronger person in the end. Best of luck to you and your family and I pray everything comes out right for you in the end.
Desiree'