Well, the tumour is still pressing on my jaw/nerve, but the op is now cancelled--new face in the Hn clinic today was another oncologist--my CT scan shows primary is probably lung, it's spread to jaw, lymph-nodes and liver, therefore no point in anything but an attempt at chemo. Won't know anything til at least next Thursday, possibly the week after when I go to a different hospital to see the new team.
So I guess I'm now in the wrong forum
Brenda