I am struck by how many guys like myself have major PEGAPHOBIA. None of the female cancer patients and certainly very few of the female caregivers express any concern about getting a PEG. Yet, I know that I was insanely opposed to getting a PEG. And yes, I believe that every male poster on OCF who got through TX without a PEG has swarded himself a mental medal.
This observation is based on reading hundreds of posts on the PEG here at the OCF forum. I know that when I failed my first MBS after surgery which meant that I needed a PEG, it was only the fourth time in 62 years that I ever cried in public (the other three were the funerals of my little brother, father & mother). I know all the psychological pain a PEG has cost me and why I rejoiced the first year in avoiding it. What I don't know is if this is somehow testosterone based. So were there any female die hard objectors to a PEG?


65 yr Old Frack
Stage IV BOT T3N2M0 HPV 16+
2007:72GY IMRT(40) 8 ERBITUX No PEG
2008:CANCER BACK Salvage Surgery
25GY-CyberKnife(5) 3 Carboplatin
Apaghia /G button
2012: CANCER BACK -left tonsilar fossa
40GY-CyberKnife(5) 3 Carboplatin

Passed away 4-29-13