It sounds like Mary Pat is a remarkable person and that she has the right attitude on dealing with her recurrence. I hope she makes it to the wedding. It's clear that she has had a positive impact. Regards JoAnne

JoAnne - Caregiver to husband, cancer rt. tonsil, mets to soft palate, BOT, 7 lymph nodes - T3N2BM0, stage 4. Robotic assisted surgery, radical neck dissection 2/06; 30 IMTX treatments and 4 cycles of cisplatin completed June 06.