Tammy, He can beat this like a lot of us did. Just boot his butt and show him this site. Once he starts to read it he just gethooked like a lot of us did. He is just a young guy yet too and that is in his favor, Don't tell anyone, but I am 73 1/2. LOL Good luck and you are both in my prayers and thoughts.

Since posting this. UPMC, Pittsburgh, Oct 2011 until Jan. I averaged about 2 to 3 surgeries a week there. w Can't have jaw made as bone is deteroriating steaily that is left in jaw. Mersa is to blame. Feeding tube . Had trach for 4mos. Got it out April.
--- Passed away 5/14/14, will be greatly missed by everyone here