I am sure you are taking memories with you and will find more there. When you are alone and feel like saying something to him, do it. Not around people tho .LOL I do this a lot with my brothers and parents and it seems to make things easier.

Since posting this. UPMC, Pittsburgh, Oct 2011 until Jan. I averaged about 2 to 3 surgeries a week there. w Can't have jaw made as bone is deteroriating steaily that is left in jaw. Mersa is to blame. Feeding tube . Had trach for 4mos. Got it out April.
--- Passed away 5/14/14, will be greatly missed by everyone here