Anne- Marie 2007- Just a thought here- I am pretty leary of many "sites for Kids" on the net. I also feel that someone your daughter's age would most benefit from a real person to sit and talk too. A reall face to face counselor can do a reality check with observations on body language, facial expressions, tone of voice, behavior, etc. Please explore some counseling options in your area for her. BTW, I am speaking from experience. When my first marriage fell apart after 18 yrs, I took my then teenage daughter to a good therapist and she says to this day that it was the best thing I could have done for her. {she went kicking and screaming the first time, but asked to go back thereafter] Amy in the Oz