All kidding aside. It may get gritty during Tx and if it does you can be the glue that holds him together and keeps him focused on your mutual goal of finishing Tx and winning this war.

3000 cals each and every day.

48 ozs of water each and every day.

stay on top of the pain meds.

You see that he does those 3 things and I guarantee he will fare as best he can and when he does well your job will be easier.


David

Age 58 at Dx, HPV16+ SCC, Stage IV BOT+2 nodes, non smoker, casual drinker, exercise nut, Cisplatin x 3 & concurrent IMRT x 35,(70 Gy), no surgery, no Peg, Tx at Moffitt over Aug 06. Jun 07, back to riding my bike 100 miles a wk. Now doing 12 Spin classes and 60 outdoor miles per wk. Nov 13 completed Hilly Century ride for Cancer, 104 miles, 1st Place in my age group. Apr 2014 & 15, Spun for 9 straight hrs to raise $$ for YMCA's Livestrong Program. Certified Spin Instructor Jun 2014.