Oh Leena she does things for me but sends her hubby. She bought me a blender, she bought me flowers twice, she bought me 6 cans of protein shakes and a ton of baby stew that I can manage to swallow. She baught me a tart burner and a bunch of Yankee tarts plus a candle lighter.
She just can't face me on a personal level. Oddly enough when I had the surgery she stayed here 4 days and cleaned, cooked, took out the dog and was such a great comfort ot me. Last time she was here I gagged trying to swallow a tiny half a pill and she went runnin' like a wild woman right out the door and has not been back.