Hey Danny,
Just remember you are in my thoughts and prayers everyday. I think we all feel angry and scared, whether we are the patient or caregiver. I still take Xanax when I feel overwhelming emotion coming on out of the blue...if I don't take meds I could just cry all day. I also get relief from prayers to God...we will never know why God allows this to some, but I can say I feel so much better when I try and give it all to Him.
Take care and know you are loved by so many!
Deb

Debbie - Caregiver for husband, Dan, diagnosed with tongue cancer 7/03. Partial gloss., mod. neck dissections, graft. Recurrence neck tumor 12/03. Radical left neck dissection 12/24/03-unable to get all the tumor. 8 weeks chemo/rad beginning 1/12/04.