Thank you all for your replies.
The lotions prescribed for the Erbitux acne is
Del-Trac @% lotion to apply at bedtime
Clindagel Topical Gel 1% to apply to skin am and pm.
I'm trying to take this all one day at a time, it's difficult though. I find myself crying one minute, happy to be holding my husband's hand the next. I think of how my heart just ached with him in the hospital for 11 days after surgery and how I cried most of the first night because I couldn't stand to leave him at the hospital in such pain. In all our years of marriage the only times we were apart were when I was in the hospital after a baby was born. Now, I want to be with him every minute but the kids need me too. I will be visiting this site often, thank you all for being there.