Sorry to hear about your recent diagnosis Gina. I also live in the SF Bay Area and was diagnosed young. This is a great forum - let me know if I can help... Been there, done that excluding chemo.
Keep us posted.

Age 44. Diagnosed at 34 (2006) with T1N0 SCC tongue on right side. Neck dissed & 6 weeks Radiation. 30% tongue removed. Never smoked;
2nd recurrence 1/2013 on left side. Surgery to remove 2/2013 forearm flap/neck dissec T1N0; brachytherapy 4/2013;
3rd recurrence 11/2015 mandibulectomy for jaw bone cancer Stage IV/no lymph node involvement