Liz, OCF is a great place to come to get moral support and a place where we all understand whats going on. We get it! I also knew Ross. He was a great guy! Im so glad he had reached out to you. It was thru him that I saw your post on his wall. Ross found OCF a while ago and quickly made several friends with his great sense of humor. Because of Ross, you will now have many new friends to turn to when you are low. Of course we are not medical professionals but we know a whole lot about oral cancer and what it can do to not just your body but also your mind. Of course no one could ever take the place of your friend Ross but, we still will be able to give you some comfort with compassion. I would still recommend seeking out a professional when you have recovered. They can help you in ways we arent able to.

(((HUGS)))

Last edited by ChristineB; 04-16-2012 04:58 AM.

Christine
SCC 6/15/07 L chk & by L molar both Stag I, age44
2x cispltn-35 IMRT end 9/27/07
-65 lbs in 2 mo, no caregvr
Clear PET 1/08
4/4/08 recur L chk Stag I
surg 4/16/08 clr marg
215 HBO dives
3/09 teeth out, trismus
7/2/09 recur, Stg IV
8/24/09 trach, ND, mandiblctmy
3wks medicly inducd coma
2 mo xtended hospital stay, ICU & burn unit
PICC line IV antibx 8 mo
10/4/10, 2/14/11 reconst surg
OC 3x in 3 years
very happy to be alive smile