Isn't it strange that a spouse knows nothing? Then someone else says the same thing and it becomes the gospel. You are doing a great job. One day he will thank you and maybe even appologize for being a hard head.

Since posting this. UPMC, Pittsburgh, Oct 2011 until Jan. I averaged about 2 to 3 surgeries a week there. w Can't have jaw made as bone is deteroriating steaily that is left in jaw. Mersa is to blame. Feeding tube . Had trach for 4mos. Got it out April.
--- Passed away 5/14/14, will be greatly missed by everyone here