Tamara,

I am so sorry that you have to go through this. It's so very true that Kyle doesn't deserve it, and neither do you or the children.

Though I haven't been in your position, I did lose my Mom last year. I can tell you that Hospice was absolutely wonderful in every way. They were with her 24 hours a day, taking care of her every need and making sure that she was comfortable and not in pain. They also helped my brother and I and the rest of our family immensely with kindness, understanding, compassion, and anything else we may have needed. In fact they still write and call me from time to time just to make sure I'm alright.

I write this hoping that there is still hope through getting that second opinion, and I pray that there is. My heart goes out to Kyle, you, and the children.

Lani


SCC part glossectomy 3/06, recur 8/06 glossectomy, floor of mouth, part of jaw removed, RT/chemo thru 10/12/06, PET clear 7/08
"A bend in the road is not the end of the road, unless you fail to make the turn"
Passed away 12/14/08