Tonya,
Hope all is still going well and that surgery is over...it's hard at first what you see but the swelling goes down and drainage tubes go away and things get better. Prayers and thoughts are with you and your brother.
God bless,
Debbie

Debbie - Caregiver for husband, Dan, diagnosed with tongue cancer 7/03. Partial gloss., mod. neck dissections, graft. Recurrence neck tumor 12/03. Radical left neck dissection 12/24/03-unable to get all the tumor. 8 weeks chemo/rad beginning 1/12/04.