Brenda,
I am truly sorry to hear of the newly diagnosed challenges facing you and your beloved husband, David. I am thankful that the medical team has the pain somewhat under control now. David is so fortunate to have you by his side and I speak for all of us that had our "stronger half" with us through this journey.
You are so right about the so little that is known about fighting this horrible cancer. Many more people have lost the battle with oral cancer than cervical cancer and prostrate cancer, for example, but we hear so much more and so the results of so much more research for both of these. As I pray for God to provide comfort and peace to you and David, to wrap His healing arms around both of you right now, to provide His wisdom and guidance to David's medical team to provide the best possible treatment plan, I will also pray for His wisdom and guidance to find more weapons to battle oral cancer.
With love,
Ed