Dear Brenda; Already a small victory! Good for you.It is super to know that the pain has met its match..googly eyes notwithstanding.
May I share with you a phrase of inspiration I received from a great Christian friend? "Do the next thing". It actually comes from Henri Nouwen, but has roots right back to Saxon England. When there is so much we can't do because of mental, physical and spiritual limitations...there is always that somewhat reachable goal of just doing the NEXT thing.
So, may you and David have the strength to do the "next thing", and may each small journey have its own special blessing.
Yes, I agree about spell-check. I feel like such a goof sometimes after posting...most of the contributors here seem like the forgiving type tho.
Blessings,
Fran


SCC Base of tongue diag. April 04 Stage IV, mets to rt. neck multiple nodes 35 rads+8 boosts First recurrence Jan05. Rt.rad neck dissection Feb02/05. Recurred with bone mets in neck July 05.
Committed to survival with dignity.