Marie, Just posted that I hadn't read your other posts, then saw this one. Is your husband up for getting on this website and reading about your tx. from people who have been through it? I promise- it will be a Great Benefit to him as a caregiver and keep his fear level down if you have side effects during treatment. Since you have young children, you and your husband will need a support system in place to help with household duties because you will not feel "too perky" while going through treatment. And while treatment is different for everyone, there are some guarantees that at some point, you will need to curl up and make the world go away for a while. So now is the time to address issues like car pooling, gro. shopping, school demands, household chores, etc. No one should count on YOU to do anything other than concentrate on getting well. And you can contribute when you feel up to it.Now is the time to get everyone organized. We are here for you. Amy