thank you, i also heard that after treatment starts that it will feel like glass is going down your throat when you eat. I still can't eat certain foods and all they did was take out my tonsils. My husband tries to help my fear but hes right it's not happening to him directly so hes afraid of saying something wrong. I feel so tired sometimes and I haven't started treatments and the lump in my neck hurts at times.

P.S. we all can be scared together