hi Julie916--
thank you for connecting. I too am so sorry you are here... and for your husband. thank you for helping me think about not wasting precious time... there is none to waste.. yet.. ironically finding it is not easy either .. working full time and he still trying to manage a bit of his business work. Is there a list of things somewhere? or did you just skim posts and formulate the needs yourself? I am on Amazon and see the OCF donation aspect with it so will do that. deep breath... it is ..for me, so anxiety provoking right now. hugs you