Sorry to hear that you have the phlegm/mucous problem. Something I haven't really experienced. Hope the surgeon can throw some light on it or give you some treatment when you see him.

I feel a tiny twinge of envy about the beard. My chin scar which was meant to be "barely perceptible" after a year has become a deep grove.

It's really hard without full support from a partner. I've had cancer 4 times and after the first biggie, my husband seemed to withdraw into himself. He was still there to do basic chores like drive me to treatment or make me a cup of tea, but he didn't take any interest in the medical detail and was sort of distant. I knew he wouldn't be able to cope with it.

Don't let depression get hold of you. Tell the doctor. You seem to be doing well overall.

I wish you well!!!