I think there was a study done in the last 2 years on this subject.
I remember that the result showed that no spouse was harmed by continuing a couples normal sex life.
Paul B do you remember or have the link to this?
I really do not see why this is an issue. Kris was obviously exposed many years ago. I continue to be well.
Tammy


Caregiver/advocate to Husband Kris age 59@ diagnosis
DX Dec '10 SCC BOT T4aN2bM0 HPV+ve.Cisplatin x3 35 IMRT.
PET 6/11 clear.
R) level 2-4 neck dissection 8/1/11 to remove residual node - necrotic with NED
Feb '12 Ca back.. 3/8/12 total glossectomy/laryngectomy/bilat neck dissection/partial pharyngectomy etc. clear margins. All nodes negative for disease. PEG in.
March 2017 - 5 years disease free. Woohoo!