just need to correct a comment I made in my previous post.

It is not that I don't want to grow old alone it is that I don't want to do it without Alex.

Re our partner's behaviours - Anne Marie is dead on. The only behaviour we can change is our own. Most of us caregivers would lose a lot of our stress and worry if we could only live with that truth.


Karen
Love of Life to Alex T4N2M0 SCC Tonsil, BOT, R lymph nodes
Dx March 2010 51yrs. Unresectable. HPV+ve
Tx Chemo x 3+1 cycles(cisplatin,docetaxel,5FU)- complete May 31
Chemoradiation (IMRTx35 + weekly cisplatin)
Finish Aug 27
Return to work 2 years on
3 years out Aug 27 2013 NED smile
Still underweight