David you really have a way of understanding...when I read your post I thought that is exactly what I am feeling and probably the driving force behind Jennie's husband feelings. Frustrating is right but still thankful gotta still give thanks...I guess today this topic has hit me right on the head hard...I am not a guy but what you said makes sense I am frustrated and bored. Nobody will let me do nothin kinda stuck in the appartment...grrr...I know it will take time and all the logical parts but I am so not used to this...I am only one month out from my surgery...I want to go to work but I know logically not possible...Frustrated is definately the word of the day.