Could you come here too?

My husband is actually quite a good cook but has shown minimal interest in cooking stuff that might get me eating again. Instead he pretty much just cooks for himeslef and every week or so, he tries shoving pudding from the store at me. That hasn't worked so far so maybe he's jusyt given up and figures if I can't do pudding I can't do anything else. He does do the shopping. Houshold chores he does if he likes them (like laundry--no problem htough he won't fold things but vacuuming? Forget it) But basicaly he's really not cut out to be much of a caretake. What you lean about people can be disappointing when you go through cancer.