Some of this is discussed by an authority at MSKCC who is on the OCF board and has helped us create a section on the main site. I am not very good at discussing these matters myself, so I refer you here.

Index of topics at http://www.oralcancerfoundation.org/emotional/index.htm

Grieving at http://www.oralcancerfoundation.org/emotional/patterns_of_grieving.htm


Brian, stage 4 oral cancer survivor. OCF Founder and Director. The first responsibility of a leader is to define reality. The last is to say thank you. In between, the leader is a servant.