Hi Jen: I don't have oral cancer, my brother does. I am what we call, in my field (mental health), a 'family member,' so I have not had to experience what you have. However, your post struck a cord with me. I had a scope put up my nose once, for a sinus evaluation, and I have never forgotten it. It was horrible. If I had to go thru another one, I would ask for meds. My thought is that if I had to have another nose scope, I would request the meds (I think they use valium, but I don't know for sure). I don't know if this is possible for a nose scope, but it wouldn't hurt to ask. Just a suggestion! - Candace