How well I know what you are feeling..you are doing a great job ,you cannot force him to go if he has no interest. Is he on anti-depressants? He needs to be. He is scared out of his wits.
Please dont have any guilty feelings..Helen is right you need to keep your own strength up. Work was the haven for me, I am a hairdresser and you can`t go long in a salon without laughter. Hell, go get your hair done..have a massage..my friends used to drag me out the door for an hour or two bless `em.
Take care
Marica
Caregiver to Pete. SCC stage IV base of tongue DX 4/03 finished treatments 7/03 and doing great.

Caregiver to husband Pete, Dx 4/03 SCC Base of Tongue Stage IV. Chemo /Rad no surgery. Treatment finished 8/03. Doing great!